![]() ![]() X sometimes does shitty stuff but who doesn't? You love X without approving of everything X does. This seems to be a "if a tree falls in the woods" scenario. Just because someone thinks and says they love someone, doesn't mean they actually do. (And hooo boy, did that retroactive disproof happen a lot to me in my life. Which, of course, means you can obviously be mistaken about your feeling of having loved someone. if it doesn't hold the test, then it wasn't love to start with. You really can't accurately predict what you will feel in a particular situation until you're in it. ![]() No one has any idea whether they will love someone no matter what that someone does, because the possibilities are endless as far as what that someone could do. I don't think that unconditional love is really a thing. I don't think that is really healthy, so no I don't think that is the only "true love". Now, if you're talking unconditional love is the only "true love" as in stay with you forever romantic style love. but if I care about someone, that doesn't stop cause we hit a deal breaker. That doesn't mean you have to LIKE them, or want to be around them, or "gagaobsess" over them. Unconditional love is the only kind of love I believe in, honestly. if it did, it would be a sign for me that I never truly loved them to begin with, and had been mistaking some kind of favoritism/superficial affection for actual love. I'm not sure if I could continue being in actual, direct contact with them.īut it would not mean I'd stop loving them. ![]() I'd be heartbrokenly sad about the choices they made, I'd make clear that I vehemently disagree with what they did and why they did it, and I'd be all for them facing the consequences for it (definitely including the legal ones). Could I still continue to love someone if, they commited some truly horrible and despicable crime? (Say, an act of X-ist terrorism that kills a thousand people, possibly including other people I love,) Yes, I could. You can love someone and still be unable to continue being in a relationship (in the broad sense of the word) with them. ![]()
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